Triangle Type
The Newsletter of the RTP Chapter of the Association for Psychological Type / Research Triangle Park, North Carolina
Fall, 2004

Edited By Carol Shumate and Walter Smith

 In This Issue

Board Meetings, 2004

Calendar of RTP/APT Programs


2nd Mondays every other month

Bring a snack
All members welcome

4131 Settlement Drive, Durham, NC
Contact MCB for directions

Detailed Program Information
Watching Type Development in Children- 
Elizabeth Murphy
Coaching & Mentoring - Elizabeth Murphy
Being Functionally Fit
Book Review: The Developing Child, 
      by Elizabeth Murphy
Calendar of Type-Related & Member-
     Sponsored Events
The Light Side of Type: Abbott and Costello
Discover Your Archetypes (Table)
Column: Dear Typie – “Extraverted Moi”
MBTI in the News – “Can Your Personality Get You Fired?”
President’s Corner
RTP/APT Authors
Partnering with Other Types – J. Kenneth Boggs
Getting The Most Out Of Teams – J. Kenneth Boggs
“Left Behind” – Ann Loomis & Carol Shumate
“An Exploration of Show, Don’t Tell in Education” – Carol Shumate
Membership Notices
Become a Member
Renew Your Membership
Perks of Membership
Congratulations!
How to Publish in Triangle Type
Qualifying Trainings Coming To The Triangle!
 
Calendar of RTP APT Chapter Programs

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Fall, 2004

Calendar of

RTP/APT Chapter Programs

Day/Date

Title & Presenter

Registration & Cost

Location

O C T O B E R

18 Monday 5:30 – 7:30 pm

Lecture:  Watching Personality Development in Young Children

– Elizabeth Murphy

 
FREE
Contact Tracey Daley: wllsprng@msn.com or 571-0070.

Raleigh:
Peace College, Flowe Bldg., Room 110

19 Tuesday

8:00 am – 12:30 pm

Workshop: Coaching and Mentoring Development Across Childhood, Adolescence, and Adulthood 
– Elizabeth Murphy

$45 members, students; 
$60 non-members; includes brunch.

Contact Tracey Daley: wllsprng@msn.com or 571-0070

Raleigh :  
Peace College, Belk, President's Dining 
Room

N o v e m b e r

16 Tuesday

5:30 – 8:00 pm

Workshop:  Being Functionally Fit - Dori Wilson and Dawn Scott-Raxter

$15 members

$25 non-members

Contact Dawn Scott-Raxter: dawn@DSRcoach.com

T.B.D.

 
Detailed RTP/APT Program Information

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Ready, Set, Go: Watching Personality Development in Young Children
Date: Monday, October 18, 5:30 – 7:30 pm
Location: Flowe Bldg., Room 110, Peace College [Directions below]
Limit: 100 
Cost: FREE 

The expression of psychological type preferences in the young child is critically different from the mature expression of that same preference. Come explore these differences and enjoy some examples of the unconscious energy of the personality of the young child. 

Objectives: Participants will... 
1. Look at examples of type expression in young children. 
2. Discuss conscious control vs. unconscious drives as they relate to personality development.

 
Workshop

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Coaching and Mentoring Development Across 
Childhood, Adolescence, and Adulthood 
Date: Tuesday, October 19, 8:00 am - 12:30 pm
Presenter: Elizabeth Murphy, Ed.D.
Location: Belk, President’s Dining Hall, Peace College [Directions below]
Limit: 50 
Cost: $45 members, students; $60 non-members (brunch included)
CEU’s available  

This workshop focuses on psychological type development in three age segments. We examine the differences between immaturity and immature development. Discussions focus on identifying the level of self-control and function management expected at each level. Learning how to manage self and learning to recognize developmental levels in others is explored, as well as strategies to encourage development and adjust for developmental differences. 

Objectives: Participants will... 
1. Look at type development for three age spans. 
2. Discuss skill expectations for each age group as it relates to type development. 
3. Distinguish immaturity from immature development. 
4. Identify strategies for accommodating type developmental levels in communications and interactions

Dr. Elizabeth Murphy is a consulting psychologist and staff development trainer for schools across the U.S. She is best known for the Murphy Meisgeier Type Indicator for Children (MMTIC), an adaptation of the Myers Briggs Type Indicator used to measure personality differences in children. The author of numerous books and publications on personality type and education, she is past president of the Association for Psychological Type and winner of the Gordon Lawrence Award for contributions to type and education. She is currently co-directing a team of researchers who are conducting a longitudinal study of type in development.

Directions to Peace College:

From the WEST on Interstate 40:
Take Wade Avenue exit (Exit 289) off I-40. Follow Wade Avenue to Capital Boulevard, and take first right onto Capital Boulevard South (heading into downtown Raleigh). Approximately _ mile on the right, you will see the sign for Peace Street exit. Take the exit and at the bottom of the ramp at the stop sign, take a left onto Peace Street. Pass three traffic lights, and Peace College is on the left.

From the EAST on Interstate 40:
Take Person Street/Hammond Road exit (Exit 299) off I-40. Turn right off the exit ramp, and follow Person Street through downtown Raleigh. Turn left onto Peace Street (Krispy Kreme doughnuts on corner). Pass one traffic light and Peace College is on the right. 

From the WEST on US Hwy 70:
Take 70 into Raleigh (Hwy 70 becomes Glenwood Avenue). Turn left onto Peace Street at light. Pass through three traffic lights, and Peace College is on the left.

 
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Being Functionally Fit: Moving Through the World
Date: Tuesday, November 16, 5:30 – 8:00 pm
Presenter: Dori Wilson and Dawn Scott-Raxter
Cost: $15 members, students; $25 non-members;
$45 program + membership, $35 program + student membership
Location: TBD

Did you hear the one about the Extraverted Intuitive’s exercise program?

He goes to the sporting goods store, has a great chat with the sales person, buys all the gear, goes to the gym, joins the club, has a great meeting with the personal trainer, makes a connection with everyone in the club. Unfortunately, he can’t understand why he hasn’t lowered his blood pressure! Or the one about the Introvert who joins the health club but never goes because they only offer “group” exercise classes? There is a story for every type preference on what moves us to move . . . or not! 

This workshop will explore how the body is a tool for type development. Using the elements from a variety of movement forms, participants will discover how the types respond, what intrigues or repels them, and what to do about it. Participation in the program is open to all levels of fitness. Some movement will be demonstrated and guided (movement is optional). Participants should wear comfortable clothing and bring a towel or mat.

Dori Wilson is a certified Nia technique instructor (Nia is a mind, body, spirit fusion fitness program) and Dawn Scott-Raxter is a Life Coach.
 
Book Review

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Reviewed by Jan Burke, ENFJ
The Developing Child: Using Jungian Type to Understand Children 
by Elizabeth Murphy 
1992, Consulting Psychologists Press, Inc.
ISBN 0-89106-060-X  

Is doing homework in front of the TV good or bad? Is the answer the same for all children? Does self-esteem develop differently for thinking preference children than it does for feeling preference children? 

Speaking to your heart and mind, Elizabeth Murphy guides you through the framework of the sixteen psychological types to a valley of understanding. Paths abound for developing positive, practical, workable strategies to foster the growth and development of the special children in our lives. Based on years of personal experiences as a licensed school psychologist and a mother of two, Ms Murphy directs us through the maze of normal personality differences. She conscientiously and consistently increases our awareness of the family relationship between parent and child and the school relationship between teacher and student.

                  Dr. Murphy decries any "simple formulae” but I think I found her formula in
                  these 148 pages: 

                  Sensitizing + awareness (16 types) + respect/honor + 
                  encouragement/affirmation = improved adult/child relationships > enhanced 
                  child development.

Her vivid descriptions of complex processes are artfully woven throughout the thirteen chapters, and specific references to each attitude and function are carefully detailed. Addressing the concept of type, Dr. Murphy easily adapts multifaceted ideas for understanding a child. She likens personality development to that of a seed that brings forth a stem, then leaves, then a bud, then a beautiful blossom--perhaps a sunflower.

Children’s success is increased if they and the adults around them become aware of and understand their natural approach, its strengths and what is needed to access those strengths. For example, Dr. Murphy reminds us that "Taking in the World" is the processing of information. She questions: Is the child reorganizing information into holistic/global patterns (Intuitive), or building conclusions based on a sequential organization of information lending itself to a memory chain (Sensing)? But Dr. Murphy does not leave us with just heightened awareness. She carefully directs us to the different kinds of practical help needed for jump-starting an assignment and for successfully completing a task. Children need different kinds of help depending upon how they process information. Albeit each child may come to the same conclusion based on the information they process, nevertheless, their paths to get there are different. 

Ideas flower. Strategies both for Home and School Applications flow throughout the book. Raising questions, Dr. Murphy gently guides us to answers and to a new/renewed respect for the variety of human experience and perceptions.

See also Elizabeth Murphy’s Lecture and Workshop on October 18 – 19.

Book Reviews—If you want to review a book on type for Triangle Type, the chapter will reimburse the cost of the book (up to $25.00). Suggested length: 500-1000 words.

 
Calendar of Type Related & Member Sponsored Events

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Fall, 2004

Calendar of Type-Related

& Member-Sponsored Events

Day/Date

Title & Presenter

Information, Registration & Cost

Location

S E P T E M B E R

Friday

9/17
7:30 pm

Lecture:  the Tao of Elvis – David Rosen

Jung Society

$40/$15 students 
919/493-9722

www.nneighbors.com/870/

Chapel Hill: Binkley Baptist Church

Saturday    9/18
10:00 4:00

Workshop:  The Healing Spirit of Haiku – David Rosen

Jung Society

$40/$15 students 
919/493-9722

www.nneighbors.com/870/

Chapel Hill: Binkley Baptist Church

Tuesdays

9/21-10/26

7:00 – 9:00 pm

Workshop:  Write From the Shadow – Ann Loomis

$155

www.learnmore.duke.edu-/shortcourse

 

Duke, Bishop’s House, Rm. 108

Thursday

10/23

Workshop:  The Use of Self as an Instrument of Change – Charles & Edie Seashore

$110

(non-members $145 after Sept. 1st)
www.todn-nc.org

UNC, Friday Center

O C T O B E R

Tuesdays

10/5-11/9

7:00 – 9:00 pm

Workshop:  Find Your Writing Style – Carol Shumate

$150

www.learnmore.duke.edu-/shortcourse

 

Duke, Social Sciences 119

                      

Friday

10/15
 
7:30 pm

Lecture:  The Holy Longing – Connie Zweig

Jung Society

$40/$15 students 
919/493-9722

www.nneighbors.com/870/

Chapel Hill: Binkley Baptist Church

Saturday

10/16  10:00—4:00

Workshop: Incorporating the Shadow – Connie Zweig

Jung Society

$40/$15 students 
919/493-9722

www.nneighbors.com/870/

Chapel Hill: Binkley Baptist Church

 
Send Us Your Events!
A perk of membership in the RTP/APT chapter is the free posting of member-sponsored events in the Calendar of Type-Related and Member-Sponsored Events. We offer this calendar as a networking aid to our members. Send information to the editors.

 
The Light Side of Type

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Submitted by Jim Buie
Editor’s note: The reason why Sensing and Intuition are two ends of one scale on the MBTI® is because they are diametrically opposed to one another. To the Sensate the Intuitive has his or her head the clouds with their grandiose ideas. To the Intuitive, the Sensate is a ‘stick in the mud’ with their attention to detail. The following vignette is a good example. It is an MBTI® take off of “Who’s on First?” by that famous team of Abbott and Costello.

COSTELLO CALLS TO BUY A COMPUTER FROM ABBOTT . . .

Abbott: Super Duper computer store. May I help you?
Costello: Thanks. I’m setting up an office in my den and I'm thinking about buying a computer.
Abbott: Mac? 
Costello: No, the name's Lou.
Abbott: Your computer?
Costello: I don't own a computer. I want to buy one.
Abbott: Mac? 
Costello: I told you, my name's Lou.
Abbott: What about Windows?
Costello: Why? Will it get stuffy in here?
Abbott: Do you want a computer with Windows?
Costello: I don't know. What will I see when I look in the windows? 
Abbot: Wallpaper.
Costello: Never mind the windows. I need a computer and software.
Abbot: Software for Windows?
Costello: No. On the computer! I need something I can use to write proposals, track expenses and run my business. What have you got? 
Abbott: Office.
Costello: Yeah, for my office. Can you recommend anything? 
Abbott: I just did.
Costello: You just did what?
Abbott: Recommend something.
Costello: You recommended something?
Abbott: Yes. 
Costello: For my office?
Abbott: Yes. 
Costello: OK, what did you recommend for my office?
Abbott: Office.
Costello: Yes, for my office!
Abbott: I recommend Office with Windows.
Costello: I already have an office with windows! OK. Let’s just say I'm sitting at my computer and I want to type a proposal. What do I need?
Abbott: Word. 
Costello: What word?
Abbott: Word in Office.
Costello: The only word in office is office.
Abbott: The Word in Office for Windows.
Costello: Which word in office for windows?
Abbott: The Word you get when you click the blue "W".

COSTELLO FINALLY GETS HIS COMPUTER BUT NOW THERE ARE OTHER QUESTIONS:

Abbott: Super Duper Computer Store, may I help you.
Costello: Can I watch movies on the Internet?
Abbott: Yes, you want Real One.
Costello: Maybe a real one, maybe a cartoon. What I watch is none of your business. Just tell me what I need!
Abbott: Real One.
Costello: f it's a long movie I also want to see reel 2, 3 & 4. Can I watch them?
Abbott: Of course.
Costello: Great! With what?
Abbott: Real One.
Costello: OK, I'm at my computer and I want to watch a movie. What do I do? 
Abbott: You click the blue "1".
Costello: I click the blue one what?
Abbott: The blue "1".
Costello: Is that different from the blue w?
Abbott: The blue "1" is Real One and the blue "W" is Word. 
Costello: What word?
Abbott: The Word in Office for Windows.
Costello: But there are three words in "office for windows"! 
Abbott: No, just one. But it's the most popular Word in the world.
Costello: It is?
Abbott: Yes, but to be fair, there aren't many other Words left. It pretty much wiped out all the other Words out there.
Costello: And that word is real one?
Abbott: Real One has nothing to do with Word. Real One isn't even part of Office.
Costello: STOP! Don't start that again. What about financial bookkeeping? You have anything I can track my money with?
Abbott: Money. 
Costello: That's right. What do you have?
Abbott: Money. 
Costello: I need money to track my money?
Abbott: It comes bundled with your computer.
Costello: What's bundled with my computer?
Abbott: Money. 
Costello: Money comes with my computer?
Abbott: Yes and at no extra charge.
Costello: I get a bundle of money with my computer? How much? 
Abbott: One copy.
Costello: Isn't it illegal to copy money?
Abbott: Microsoft gave us a license to copy money.
Costello: They can give you a license to copy money?
Abbott: Why not? THEY OWN IT!

A FEW DAYS LATER

Abbott: Super Duper computer store. May I help you?
Costello: How do I turn my computer off?
Abbott: Click on "START.”
 
Discover Your Archetypes

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From Toronto, APT International Conference, July 23, 2004

Descriptions of the Archetypes

by

Carol S. Pearson and Hugh K. Marr

Archetype

Gifts

Pitfalls

Innocent

Optimism, hope, trust, faith, simple virtue

Naiveté, childish dependence, denial, obliviousness

Orphan

Realism, resilience, interdependence, empathy

Cynicism, tendency to be victim or victimizer, arrogance

Warrior

Discipline, courage, determination, skill

Fear of impotence leading to ruthlessness, arrogance

Caregiver

Community, nurturance, compassion, generosity

Martyrdom, enabling others, co-dependence, guilt-tripping

Seeker

Autonomy, ambition, identity, expanded possibilities

Inability to commit, chronic disappointment, alienation and loneliness

Lover

Passion, commitment, enthusiasm, sensual pleasure

Objectifying others, romance or sex addictions, out of control sexuality

Destroyer

Metamorphosis, revolution, capacity to let go

Doing harm to self and others, out of control anger, terrorist tactics

Creator

Creativity, vision, skill, aesthetics, imagination

Self-indulgence, poverty, creating messes, prima donna behaviors

Ruler

Responsibility, sovereignty, control, system savvy

Rigidity, controlling behaviors, an attitude of entitlement, elitism

Magician

Transformative, catalytic, or healing power

Manipulation of others, disconnection from reality, cultist guru behavior

Sage

Wisdom, non-attachment, knowledge, skepticism

Overly critical, pomposity, impracticality, lack of feeling or empathy

Jester

Humor, life lived in the moment, exuberant joy

Debauchery, irresponsibility, sloth, cruel jokes, con artistry


Reproduced by permission of the publisher from Introduction to Archetypes, copyright 2002 Carol S. Pearson and Hugh K. Marr. Further reproduction prohibited without express permission of the publisher, Center for Applications of PsychologicalType, Gainesville, FL.

Pearson-Marr Archetype Indicator™ and PMAI™ are trademarks of 
Carol S. Pearson and Hugh K. Marr in the United States and other countries.
  Organizational Team Culture Indicator™ and OTCI™ are trademarks of Carol S. Pearson in the United States and other countries.

Click on "Discover Your Archetypes" at www.capt.org.

 

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